The Big Day came and went

So as most of you know that Saturday Jeremy and Tab got married. What a day. I know some of you are going to think what I am about to say is rude but it is the truth in how I feel and how he has hurt my family . Jeremy was officially removed from the family by me. He was gutless, rude and against laying claim to us as being his family. He very much hurt my parents when he would not acknowledge them. After the mass was over (and the mess cleaned up from his brides brilliant idea to have party poppers.) they left the church without having a family photo taken with his family(this set the mood for the rest of the day.) I feel like I have the right to complain about him since I spent over $319.00 just so my 2 kids could be a part of the wedding. I feel like that if Jess, Mary and I wouldn't have shown up he wouldn't have even cared. At the reception is where we found out that, that day was about one person and one person only (you guessed it the bride.) He dad gave a wonderful speech that in the long run he basically said his daughter was a popular whore.(sorry if this makes anyone mad this is my blog and my story and I am truly and deeply hurt.) (Jeremy and Tab if you some how found out about this blog and read know that I am not sorry for what I have said. I feel like you two need a dose of reality. Jeremy you are my children's only blood uncle they don't have another one around and I feel that if Luke's brother Robert was still alive my kids wouldn't know you(you are never around). I feel like Jeremy and Tab owe my parents an apology for how they left them hanging and how rude and mistreated they were. My son Seth who is Jeremy's god child made a comment about how Jeremy only comes around once in a blue moon and wants them to be his buddy and that he is tired of it. I was also informed that Jeremy had to call my sister (not sure why he didn't call me) to find out what my daughters (his own niece) last name was. I think Jeremy should have taken Tab's last name because that is where he belongs not with us any more. I don't want anyone to think that just because I was not in the wedding is why I am angry that it not the case I could have cared less. It is the fact that he couldn't even gives us 5 seconds for a family photo, and that when the guest list had to be cut that he cut family members instead of her dad and sisters friends. In closing with tears in my eyes this has not been easy and will take a long time to heal.